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生活中的5个球/ N8 ]( z% U; `* L4 |; `$ V
* A1 r6 T: h2 y! L4 ?+ S. J可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson. Z2 o1 E# a7 H7 E
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。! \2 v9 h9 j: t6 a
* i- F' ?' U9 u4 x& X$ n# C8 P你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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& j- X4 Z4 j$ w你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。0 k1 m0 O0 Y6 V% c$ ^
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怎样才能做好?
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! m. \4 A, S- @, b1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。& A1 Y6 ]" X0 o# m- J2 T
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。, |- h1 d* P, F; l/ j i
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。( o) r% r) G( W' B& L
( c g* I: F9 J: D& ^7 h/ w5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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9 }) @# ?" R5 L9 U3 R2 B. `8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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" X! b9 ?& \) G3 A( U9 R0 C11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。' R2 s9 M+ C# M9 u1 N8 w
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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* H5 I" O" n+ ~7 P8 L; J原文: B, |0 f8 A5 A7 }
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Five Balls Of Life) @& P. I% Y1 i, ?' a+ V
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.6 `, @" V# X) T+ L- ~+ @
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.0 ^6 f' O% j$ c- I
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.- i4 a h8 _( l2 s* o
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+ N! a! g2 `* K u1 ]You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.* b8 B2 ?% I' G1 D
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.- ~: T4 t7 L/ _1 V3 _
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.! C8 Q* _% l O
u3 G& c' m4 U0 o( ]' K# U4 h8 _4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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9 o) d3 F$ Y2 y4 h P A$ p5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.# k" ?6 [$ `' v0 a9 r
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. p, u- ?6 n; m9 m5 Y) s& G# I
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.( b: S$ ~3 g: ?" v8 k9 ?
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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1 u/ k) O" l6 Y! v11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily./ Y4 e- ?+ G5 b, M. I
3 V8 p* L8 P4 z; {12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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