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生活中的5个球
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! g2 i- k4 t7 {0 l* r: K: k可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson# l* A8 \; P0 C! \3 P6 _' ]. A
8 ~8 ]6 s8 t0 H8 ?设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。! O# q" t. F4 p$ q
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。4 n4 B- k' L( t( @5 B
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。1 n+ ?) v/ h+ F. r6 K
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怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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, }8 W, w# r7 O; y) u8 X2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。- L& o' ]/ E, R) F1 I7 a
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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$ n7 a, _# C7 g7 R' m4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。( |! h! v' _$ b0 ]5 R
" V a! N) _" { o" Z5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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( [1 k: V# w& P6 j& @+ b6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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4 Z# Z9 a `5 E' m+ x6 d4 U$ `7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 # W: Y7 e) }+ t% ?5 L. U
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。+ ?) J6 w2 `3 @* S: l
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。5 C1 ?7 v0 G# P- }( g5 R- H& ]
# o+ K1 K% ` E, m C4 L10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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5 b m( O4 Q9 J$ N8 I. S- G8 Y11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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+ v) D) k* _2 g& L9 ~2 `9 e% L原文:
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% [# s- G( W7 g# Y2 oFive Balls Of Life. P3 r" m$ A* E! c$ x' F- b
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.% H. D* c! I+ S$ N+ l0 s# }" }' l
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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0 S9 a" D, U7 R3 w/ g: EImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
$ v( W3 q- `1 p" F4 E* LYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.) P2 Z/ x# K# E4 t; }/ b4 X4 i' T
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
C0 }6 X3 j0 n" QThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?8 n: J+ M* ~* b$ w* o
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! o, G, y8 `! v7 Y1 W1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.9 t& U" g; c( T! j6 G5 \
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.# t! O) Z# r8 q3 V3 }
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.2 l, H, {0 |1 h5 i! C2 X8 h4 ^
( Y# P/ T8 J( H: I: E4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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6 b1 T' n0 o6 S/ g5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.2 O# P7 U8 z/ s+ q4 F
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.0 f6 f1 ~& a+ m H; L8 |, x
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.& Z) P( Y+ `% A W
" v" D+ ^; q: U6 ?4 Z10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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. M0 {# h( Z5 e6 |$ l& z' O- N7 j- I12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.$ N0 C: o, U6 d
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